Ok, so how are you holding up? Splitting from your girl is tough, especially when it's not what you want.
The urge to try everything possible all at the same time is often overwhelming. Unfortunately, all you are going to achieve by jumping in feet first is to push your ex girl even further away.
Believe it or not, with the right approach, almost all relationshps can be salvaged, no matter what the circumstances. It is possible to get your girl back without resorting to begging and pleading. (Which is a bad idea anyway) With your dignity intact it is possible to change your situation and get her back in your arms.
The very first thing you need to do is stop what you have been doing, and take a step back, if you are reading this then you probably already know that what you have been doing is just not working.
What you need to do is sort your own head out before you even think about winning your girl back. Emotions normally run high at a time like this, so before you can achieve anything you need to get them under control. It's a completely normal reaction to feel panic and distress when losing someone you care about, but the last thing you want is to show this in front of your ex girl. Better to channel all that negative stuff into a positive plan of action.
The secret to how to win back a girl is all about getting your head on straight and having the right strategy.
